If you’re here, you’re probably tired.
Tired of people saying "just relax" as if stress is the reason your body isn't cooperating. Tired of online spaces where someone's celebrating while someone else is grieving, and you're somewhere in between, holding your breath.
You’ve searched “IVF success rates” at 2 a.m. more times than you can count. You know the protocols, the meds, the side effects, a language you never asked to learn. Maybe this isn’t your first time. Maybe, perhaps your second. Or third. Or fourth. You’re tired of explaining why “just adopt” isn’t simple. Or maybe it’s all still new, and everyone around you keeps telling stories that aren’t yours, their friend who got pregnant the first try, their cousin who “just relaxed.”
Whatever brought you here, you know IVF feels heavier than it should. Not just the medical part, but the quiet pressure to stay hopeful while bracing for disappointment. To be grateful for access while grieving what you imagined. You’re doing your best. But you’re tired.
Even when you’re not alone, it can feel like no one truly gets it. That’s why this space exists, not to fix it, but to hold you while you walk it.
Here, you’re seen. You’re supported. You’re not alone.
We hold emotional space. We don’t offer medical advice.
Read our COVEnant.
Inside OpenCove
A quiet membership designed to guide and support, not overwhelm. No tiers. No upgrades. No hidden content. Full access from the moment you join.
What you get:
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From your first consultation to recovery, we walk you through what to expect at each stage. Not clinical instructions, but lived guidance from people who have been there.
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A quiet room where you can ask questions, share what's real, and feel seen by people in the same place you are. No toxic positivity. No performative hope. Just honest presence.
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Short, grounding audio pieces for treatment days, waiting days, and the moments in between when you need someone to remind you that you're not alone.
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Guides, prompts, and resources for your body and mind through retrieval, transfer, FET, and recovery. Made for the inside of IVF, the parts no one prepares you for.
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Any new tools, reflections, or community offerings we add are included. No upsells. No paywalls.
The path
we walk together
OpenCove guides you through five phases of IVF, each one built for what you're actually experiencing, not just what the clinic tells you.
The Five Coves:
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Understanding the IVF landscape. What to expect in your first consultation. How to ask questions. What no one tells you before you start.
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The emotional and practical prep before treatment begins. How to talk to your partner. What to have on hand. How to create space for what's coming.
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Moving through stims, monitoring, retrieval. What your body might feel. What the waiting is like. How to stay grounded when everything feels uncertain.
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Transfer, FET, the two-week wait. Tools for hope and grief at the same time. How to hold both outcomes with care.
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The financial reality of treatment. How to navigate costs, insurance, and the stress of paying for possibility.
“Real support shouldn’t be priced like privilege. It should be present. Accessible. Quietly there when you need it most.”
— Pamala, founder
$99
for the year
OpenCove costs $99 per year. Full access to everything: the five-phase path, community, audio reflections, tools, and any new offerings we create.
No monthly decisions. No subscription fatigue. Just one year of steady support while you move through IVF.
Cancel anytime. No questions asked. We're here when you need us, and we understand when you don't.
You're about to start your first IVF cycle and don't know what to expect.
You've been through IVF before and need a more private space than what's available online.
You're tired of forums where someone's announcement is your trigger.
You want guidance from real people, not just clinical protocols.
You need support that doesn't expire after one cycle.
You're doing this alone, with a partner, or somewhere in between.
If any of that feels true, you belong here.
